this is the …

Taurean’s eye. He is watching you.

photos

a friend’s dad passed on and i got to know about it today. not great of course, and i remember her dad as someone very reserved and sturdy, a businessman no doubt. i took some photos of him during her wedding earlier this year and i didn’t pass them off to her because i didn’t think they make the cut. but today, i decided to polish up abit and send those to her because i believe she wants to keep memories of him for as much as she (and family) could. photographs i discard because of aesthetic value, take on a different meaning.

who am i to judge and throw on a whim … when they could mean so much more to someone else. …

she wrote: “Good men must die, but death cannot kill their names or deeds.” a wonderful line indeed…upon death, how one is remembered is all that matters.

Update: friend sent me a mail letting me know they were looking through the link i sent across during cremation. my heart died abit when i read that. i am glad i could contribute alittle of consolation in midst of grief.

the day i ran ..

and walked the last 4km.

haha!

pretty day

cottony

hello sunset…

bank mates

they are friends of one of my best buddies.

i got to know them better in the last couple of years … i think after Adrian’s sudden death two years back (time flies). we first sat on the same table at his funeral i think…talking and tearing over Adrian’s life. and we started going out for gatherings and house dinners. fun bunch … and they are mad when it comes to taking silly pictures.

in another 3 months, 1st January 2012, it will be adrian’s 3rd anniversary. time really flies. if he were still alive, i think he would be a superstar where he worked. life is cruel sometimes, to rob him when he was at his prime. i used to hate adrian’s ‘atas-ness’ but gradually learnt to laugh and tease him about it.

pfff. sigh.